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It's quite baffling why young girls are rejecting saree and going in for salwar kameez and kurtis which are a notch above hizab. Even the trend is seen very much in rural India.
Answers (27) spirited answered 27 Jun, 10, 1:07 PM
Holy Cow!!! What a comparison!
Bhavya answered 29 Jun, 10, 1:02 PM
Its for the bloody same reason that men in the country switched from dhotis to Kurta Pyjama or Trousers long ago.
Kurti is to comfort what a Saree is to pain in the neck. aaryesdee answered 29 Jun, 10, 1:07 PM
sab se acha Swamy Nithyanand ka saffron dress......
cosmicbomber added 29 Jun, 10, 1:47 PM
If convenience is the reason, they one should go for western outfits where the midriff is liberally displayed, otherwise go for body fitting hizab with eye slit, it is sexier than salwar kameez, at least the imagination of the beholder can go wild even the actually thing is unattractive.
amittg answered 29 Jun, 10, 2:20 PM
Sharee is much sexier than kurti.
But women these days avoid sharee. May be they are not trained to handle sharee. Bhavya answered 29 Jun, 10, 2:46 PM
Cosmicbomber u r missing a good point here. A lot of this girls picking up the boring Kurtis that do not rattle ur imagination are not dressing up for u. For them u may not exist.
cosmicbomber added 29 Jun, 10, 3:03 PM
@ bhavya, I was just trying to give some elementary fashion tips so that they look attractive for their prospective mates, I am not expecting anything for myself :) And, it may not be only men specific, women may dress to please other women as well. Saree exposes the mid section beautifully and according to Pierre Cardin the saree, blouse combination is more sexier than a bustier worn with a pair of lacy stockings, but yes you have to wear the saree really low and a minimalistic blouse to create the effect.
Bhavya answered 29 Jun, 10, 3:14 PM
Yawn
Nikita answered 29 Jun, 10, 3:26 PM
@ Cosmic Bomber - I didnt expect such a silly question from you. A person who is always dabbling in erotica has to ask the world which ones sexier - a saree or a kurti!!!
@ Bhavya - Are you a wannabe feminist? Bhavya answered 29 Jun, 10, 3:47 PM
@Nikita: May be...not sure. It depends on how u define it. I personally dont believe in categorizing people.
Bhavya answered 29 Jun, 10, 4:28 PM
And now that I have been called a feminist, let me add a few things:
Saree is any day sexier. Pitching it against salwar kameez or kurti on the scale of sex appeal is insanity. Why young girls are rejecting saree and going in for salwar kameez and kurtis which are a notch above hizab? That's cos when this average women is stepping out of the house for work or college or whatever, looking sexy is not on her mind. And to Cosmicbomber, the young women of this country are today much more sexually liberated then any of their predecessors and no they are not trying to look attractive to their prospective mates with kurtis. They definitely know better than that, only if u had access to data to help u assess the trends among women folk for the stuff they wear when they are trying to entice their mates. The sarees that were worn on a daliy basis by the women of yester-years were no where close to the sexy "Desi Girl" versions of it.They were very boring and troublesome. So if u r tying to ask why the young women have excluded the sexy saree from their daily wear wardrobe, it was never actually included. It has always had an Exclusive status and still maintains the same. cosmicbomber added 29 Jun, 10, 5:40 PM
LOL @ Nikita, on a hindsight I admit the question was a no brainer, all I was trying to drive home that why not embrace a body hugging hizab with eye slit instead of a salwar kameez if you are shedding saree because the former seems to be more provocative than kurti and stuff.
@ bhavya, I am not referring to the hindustani rural draping, but the bollywood draping which was actually perfected by Tagore's sister-in-law about 100 years back by taking cues from Parsi draping. It's no wonder why ad gurus and art directors choose saree over salwar kameez when they need to dress a woman. cosmicbomber added 29 Jun, 10, 5:47 PM
As a matter of fact, the creators of Savita Bhabi also draped her in a saree and gave thumbs down to salwar kameez or kurti. So, girls time to reshuffle your wardrobe!
@ amitg, you can throw some more light on the handling part and how such training can be organized, I know the girls hate the boring kuris but as bhavya rightly pointed out the convenience factor is coming in between their choice. nashbloom answered 29 Jun, 10, 10:08 PM
CB you are disgusting if you define sexier by giving reference of Savita Bhabhi. I dont know how a man can actually find a cheap Porn cartoon sexier.
There has to be differnce between sexier and sluttier. A big major difference which you cant differentiate. cosmicbomber added 29 Jun, 10, 10:58 PM
@Nash, I am a bit surprised that you instantly recognized Savita Bhabi but uncomfortable with her reference!
What's wrong with a porn cartoon character? It's a part of culture that is sweeping India (but undercover), pornography plays a very important role in adult life and Savita Bhabi is more a symbol of India's first sexually liberated woman that a cartoon porn character. Please read Pritish Nandy's blog on Savita Bhabi. http://blogs.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/extraordinaryissue/entry/the-assassination-of-savita-bhabhi nashbloom answered 30 Jun, 10, 12:28 AM
@ CosmicBomber I am shocked the way you are calling a porn character a symbol of sexually liberated indian women. There is no way you can compare the two. I hope not many ppl here on Admanya share the same view like you.
cosmicbomber added 30 Jun, 10, 12:42 AM
Porn is not untouchable in any liberal culture, it also reflects the society we are in, in many countries porn is legal. I think we have a mindset issue here, just because it is a porn comic, probably you can't accept it, but I don't see any problem with Savita Bhabi as long as it is enjoyed by 18 years old men and women. Give it a try, you will probably like it but I think the site is banned by GOI :( Also, read the blog written by Pritish Nandy in TOI.
nashbloom answered 30 Jun, 10, 12:49 AM
People can go to any lenghts justifying their insatiable apetite for porn.
Sorry friend i cant be you and you cant be me. Whether its a toon or a real pornstar. It is absolutely dramatized, fictional and no way a symbol of sexually liberated women. I am not intersted in reading any article which supports your Porn theory. cosmicbomber added 30 Jun, 10, 12:56 AM
It is not an article on porn theory, it is a view of an eminent journalist about the immature action of GOI in banning savitabhabi.com and denying the freedom of choice to millions of Indians.
cosmicbomber added 30 Jun, 10, 12:58 AM
Also, I don't expect everyone to share the same views as me every time! I have no problems with that, lets wait for views of other Admanyacs.
amittg answered 30 Jun, 10, 2:59 PM
What dose a sexually liberated woman means?
Dose it mean cheating on her husband? Involving in extra-marital affairs? Sleeping with multiple partners? Savita Bhabi is a cartoon porn character. She cant be the symbol of sexually liberated Indian woman. @Nash Reading any article or visiting porn sites will not make u polluted. So read the article, it worth reading. Dont miss the comments. Sangita answered 30 Jun, 10, 3:02 PM
amitg, ya, that's what people like CB wants to see woman as!!
Bhavya answered 30 Jun, 10, 3:24 PM
Spot on Amittg.
Btw are u a wannabe feminist as well ;) Ranger answered 30 Jun, 10, 5:25 PM
It has the same meaning as the "sexually liberated man".
spirited answered 30 Jun, 10, 5:43 PM
Holy Cow!!! I think the question was not on Savita Bhabi but now everyone is only discussing her, seems she is a real crowd puller for Admayacs, LOL :P
cosmicbomber added 30 Jun, 10, 10:18 PM
@ ranger, absolutely right, I am tired of explaining, you take over if you can, thanks in advance.
@ spirited, we all love pornography and erotica but very few will admit, so it is natural that Savita Bhabi will always be a big crowd puller :) Horrified_Harihar answered 01 Jul, 10, 9:23 AM
Bollocks!
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